It’s More Blessed to Rescue Than to Be Rescued

A woman weeping on the sidewalk taught me something about God.

If you haven’t read the previous postmore blessed to rescue, how we came across a desolate, helpless stranger in the Seoul airport and what happened, you should go there first. This is part two.

Like I said at the end of that post, I learned something about God that day.

I’d known God for a long time. By the immeasurable grace of Christ, I heard the gospel as a young child and responded in repentance and faith. Very early I learned that God is the cosmic rescuer and we’re the rescued. Yes! Hallelujah! Thank you, Father.

But one day I read Ephesians 1 where Paul obsesses about God getting blessed as He rescues sinners. “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places,” (Ephesians 1:3 ESV).

I didn’t understand what he was talking about. What benefit does God get from salvaging poor helpless humans? The answer eluded me until that day in the Seoul airport. Here’s how that went down.

My shuttle pulls away from the terminal. Through the rear window I watch that little knot of happy humans recede in the distance. Their cup is full. Obviously. No surprise there.

I watch until I can’t see them any more. But I’m feeling them. Something is happening in my chest, and it lasted all day, and then some. A deep joy, an unbroken thrill at the sense of privilege was rising in my heart. And even before the shuttle got back to Valerie and June, I realized, This must be how God feels. This is what Ephesians is talking about!

The rescuer gets the bigger blessing

I replayed that experience over and over all day as we travelled on into Russia. I related it to anyone who would listen. And the incident unlocked a biblical truth that had eluded me for years. It’s more blessed to rescue than to be rescued.

more blessed to rescueWe’ve received much from God. Ephesians 1:3-14 lists multiple benefits God has granted us in Christ: election, predestination, adoption, redemption, forgiveness, and more. And as the writer lists these blessings, he interrupts himself three times with an intriguing phrase: “to the praise of the glory of His grace” (v 6); “to the praise of His glory (v 12); “to the praise of His glory” (v 14).

For years I skimmed over those brief benedictions without understanding them. What’s the existential link between my rescue and God’s blessing?

Blessed be God!

In fact, Paul begins that section with the phrase I quoted above: “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.” Really? Blessed be God? Aren’t I the one who gets blessed? Aren’t I the lost sinner who finds a forever home in Christ? Aren’t I richly, abundantly favored in Christ? Yes, yes and yes. That’s exactly what Paul says. But he begins with “blessed be God.”

Okay, Paul, whatever you say. But seems like it would be more accurate to say, “Blessed be Gary Brumbelow who has received every spiritual blessing in the heavenlies in Christ.”

All this came clear to me in the Seoul airport, September 2000, when a lost family got richly blessed, and the rescuer got blessed even more.

I wasn’t suffering that day. It wasn’t me lost and alone. That would be her, the stranger from Russia weeping on the sidewalk. She was “separated … alienated … having no hope and without God in the world” (Ephesians 2:12). She was sick with fear and grief, suffocating in despair. But a half hour after we met, she had been rescued … and I had been profoundly blessed.

This blessing happened at two levels. First, I felt a great inner joy, an irrepressible buoyancy. I was floating a foot off the ground for several hours.

Blessed be some American strangers

But I believe another level of blessing–that is, of praisewas also developing.

About our cosmic rescue Paul testifies, “blessed be God.” And I’m pretty sure the Russian stranger was testifying “blessed be those Americans.” That family presumably arrived in their new home in Korea where they found new neighbors, met new colleagues, made new friends—and also called back home—and to many of these they gave glory to some American strangers. We received glory. Their unlikely rescue resulted in the praise of the glory of some American strangers.

That’s a tiny parallel to what we read about God receiving glory for his rescue of humans. There are also some very big differences between the two.

But that explanation involves a cat story, and I’m already stretching my reader’s patience. Next post.

What Do You Say to a Weeping Stranger?

In September 2000 Valerie and I, with a friend, June, flew to Seoul, South Korea, the first leg of a trip to Siberia.  We spent the night on the campus of the Yoido Full Gospel Church, at 700,000 the largest church in the world. It was Saturday evening and a loud, all-night prayer meeting was going on in the sanctuary next door to the dorm. We slept, but not much. And watched a Nebraska University football game live!

Worshippers entering Yoido Full Gospel Church

After the early service Sunday morning, a hospitable young man from the church showed us around the city for a couple of hours before we took a taxi back to the airport to go on to Khabarovsk, Russia.

When we arrived at the terminal and got out at the curb we saw something curious. A young woman, surrounded by luggage and holding her baby, stood on the sidewalk, quietly weeping as crowds of travelers hurried by. No one seemed to notice her. But we were drawn to her.

“Are you okay?” June asked. And she told us her story, speaking in English with a Russian accent.

She and her husband, their twelve-year-old daughter and baby had flown all night from Moscow to Seoul. The family was moving to Korea where he had a job waiting. They had arrived at the other terminal, visible some distance away. They collected their luggage and went to the taxi stand to come to this terminal to catch their domestic flight.

Their troubles began at the taxi stand. A single car could not accommodate them and their luggage. So her husband put her and the baby and half the luggage in a taxi and said, “I’ll be right behind you in the next taxi.”

Alone and afraid

She and her baby and luggage had been set out here where we had found her. But her husband and daughter had never arrived. At this point, she had waited ninety minutes, and had no idea what had happened to her family. She had no identification, no money, knew no one, spoke no Korean. She was utterly helpless, lost and alone, a fitting picture of the apostle Paul’s description of the Ephesians, “separated from Christ, alienated from the commonwealth of Israel and strangers to the covenants of promise, having no hope and without God in the world,” (Eph 2:12 ESV).

What do you do when confronted with such a scenario? We were also strangers, didn’t speak the language, not sure how we could help. In fact I was dubious: was this some kind of scam? But there were three of us, and we were determined to do what we could, one step at a time.

Inside the terminal I asked if they could page the other building. “No.” We would need to go there.

Valerie and June agreed to stay with the baggage and be on the lookout for anyone who appeared like he was looking for someone. I went back in and begged a piece of paper, a marker and some tape. The woman wrote her name on the paper and we taped it to the handlebars of the stroller.

The woman carried her baby and we got on the shuttle. The ride took a few minutes and we got off at the original terminal and looked around. The buildings were not huge; in a few minutes we had determined he was not there.

Help wanted

I asked the young woman at the information desk to page him.

No. We only page for citizens or lost children.”

“But this family is separated, can’t you help us?” She called for authorization but hung up and said “No, I’m sorry.”

The police station was at this terminal. We approached their office, but the language barrier prevented any real communication. Same result at the taxi stand. Everyone was courteous, even sympathetic, but nobody could help. And I was out of ideas. This poor woman was beginning to cry again. She had taken some courage from our offer to help. For a few minutes, her hopes had lifted. But now she was sinking into fear again. I saw this and tried to encourage her.

“I am praying.” I wasn’t sure what that would mean to her. “God will help us.” I tried to sound convincing, and in the meantime, I was having a separate conversation with God. This would be a good time, Lord. Any moment now would be a real good time to make something happen.

When I lose something, say a tool, I look where I last used it. Failing that, I go back to the prior place I had it. If I don’t find it, I go back to the first place. Limited imagination? Maybe, but I didn’t know what else to do. I also didn’t know that God was already answering my prayers.

“Let’s go back. Maybe he has come now.” Of course that made no sense; he had not come for ninety minutes, why would ten more make any difference? But all this time, at every step, God was at work. His invisible hand was guiding us.

Sudden turn to joy

We got back on the shuttle. I sat behind her, looking out the window at nothing and praying. God, please help us. Look with favor on this desperate family.

That’s when everything took an abrupt turn. Almost too fast to process.

The shuttle was in the right lane. And now the left lane was dividing from ours at an island, commercial traffic to the right, private vehicles to the left. But we weren’t back at the terminal yet. Slowly I realized this was a third terminal, between the other two but hidden from both. The significance of that was not immediately obvious. But in a moment, it washed over both of us with perfect clarity and sudden joy. Because at the very tip of that island, right where the lanes parted, a man was standing, scanning all the traffic very intensely. She gasped, and I knew we had our man.

He saw her, and darted through traffic to be there when our shuttle stopped at the curb. She fell into his arms and time stood still. In a few seconds their world was turned right-side up again.

Later, thinking about that moment, I thought, What if I had tried to cheer her? “Well, at least it’s a beautiful day” or “Your baby is really cute?” No words would have lifted her burden in the slightest. The fear and despair were too profound. But now, nothing I might have said would have disturbed her in the least: her joy was that deep.

I watched this happy reunion. After a moment, she stunned me by stepping up and hugging my neck with fierce intensity.

So close, so far away

Now we knew what had happened. From Terminal Three the first taxi took her to Terminal One and the second taxi took him to Terminal Two. For ninety minutes they had not been far apart, and yet their separation was complete and profound because of what they didn’t know.

We decided she would stay with the children (their twelve-year-old daughter stood nearby) while he went with me to get the luggage. The shuttle took us back where all this started. Valerie and June were overjoyed to hear the story. We loaded her luggage and I went with him one more time to help.

Back at the “mystery” terminal I helped him set out the bags and stepped back on the bus. The doors closed, we pulled away, and I watched this little family as long as I could. My heart was bursting with joy at the privilege to have helped them from their predicament. And I learned something about God that I had never before understood.

But that’s for another post.